You Made Me Do It To You: Blaming Someone For You Mistreating Them
Abusive people or those who mistreat people usually blame those they wronged for their own bad behavior
a·bu·sivem /əˈbyo͞osiv,əˈbyo͞oziv/ adjective: abusive1. extremely offensive and insulting. 2. engaging in or characterized by habitual violence and cruelty.
3. involving injustice or illegality. “the abusive and predatory practices of businesses”
Many people refuse to take personal responsibility for their behavior, it has become common place to play the ‘blame game’, this where a person points to someone else as to show why they behaved the way they behaved or ‘reacted’! That is exactly it, reactions! Folks are always saying well, “she/he did this so that is why I…. reacted the way I did”! In some countries this has become a legal defense for others as we have seen with the Kyle Rittenhouse case, instead of being at home in his state as he should have been.
At 17 years of age Rittenhouse was illegally carrying a ‘big ass’ gun patrolling in a state that was not his own breaking the law, he got away with it too. He literally got away with not only breaking the law he got away with murdering and injuring people. The world has become a place filled with people that play the blame game everyday all day long. I have…
